I work with a man who is very intelligent, but no one likes him because he’s so cocky and arrogant, and lets us know he’s better than we are. I’d like to help him get over this, but I don’t know how. Any suggestions?
Davison, I can feel your situation. I think you can have a talk with your fellow, and tell your feeling working with him and what you hope for. Good communication is the first step to change, try to show your humble and love to him, keep praying, and God will give your wisdom to help him.
First, pray to God to intrust this matter to God. God will guide and help. And we should pray more for this.
I don’t know if you have the same pastor.
If you have, I think it is better let your pastor be the mediator.
If not, talking with him is a good way.
I think everyone has his own disadvantage, you can serve him and help when he is in need.
If he is arrogant, I don’t think he has high esteem. He needs your love and attention.