It’s always easy to jump to conclusions of what we think we would or should do (or our partner should do).
But this was no ordinary tale. All of Job & his wife’s children were killed, they lost everything they owned, and Job was covered from head to toe in painful oozing boils. He was scraping his skin with broken pottery. This wasn’t just “Hey snap out of it.”
Truth is, none of us knows what Job’s wife was feeling as it does not indicate anything other than what she said in the text. But I imagine she was angry with God and like many of us do without intending to, she took it out on the one closest to her: Job.
But the big story is that somehow, Job’s faith was so strong, even then, he kept his head straight on who God is.